Autism insights

Seeing the world - just a bit differently

What being 'slightly autistic' means to me

Being slightly autistic isn’t just a label – it’s a lens through which I see and navigate the world. For me, it means finding clarity in complexity, spotting patterns others might overlook, and sometimes overthinking things that don’t even need thinking (hello, endless debates over which laptop to use).

It’s about seeing the world differently – not better or worse, just differently. I find joy in structure and logic but often stumble over the messy, emotional chaos of life. While small talk feels like trying to dance to a song I’ve never heard, deep conversations about ideas, solutions, or even the quirks of fasting? That’s my jam.

Of course, life comes with its challenges. Sensory overload, social nuances, and the occasional battle with glucose-induced comas are part of my daily reality. But here’s the thing – I wouldn’t trade this perspective for anything. It’s helped me approach life, work, and even parenting with a kind of creativity and honesty that’s uniquely mine.

At the end of the day, being autistic isn’t something I try to “overcome” – it’s part of who I am. It’s the reason I embrace a long-term mindset in investing, why I experiment with fasting and keto, and how I manage to wrestle with my wife over the PlayStation controller (and occasionally win).

So, if you’ve ever felt a bit different, like the world doesn’t quite speak your language – welcome. Slightly autistic or not, you might just find a bit of yourself in my story.

Living with autism

Living with autism is a bit like navigating life with a unique operating system. It’s not always compatible with the world’s default settings, but once you learn to work with it, it can be surprisingly powerful. For me, it’s about balancing logic and emotions, structure and spontaneity – all while occasionally wondering why people insist on small talk about the weather.

Parenting? That’s its own adventure. Raising a four-year-old who shares some of my quirks (but with way more energy) has taught me a lot about patience, flexibility, and the importance of snack breaks. And let’s be honest – my daughter has probably taught me more about living with autism than I’ve taught her.

Day-to-day, autism can mean thriving in routines while struggling with surprises. It’s why I love systems, whether it’s fine-tuning investments on eToro, experimenting with fasting schedules, or optimizing workflows with AI. These systems aren’t just hobbies – they’re lifelines in a world that often feels a bit too chaotic.

But living with autism also means finding joy in the little things. A perfectly executed plan, a quiet moment of clarity, or even a victory over my wife in our ongoing PlayStation rivalry. It’s these small wins that keep me grounded.

That said, it’s not always easy. Sensory overload, unexpected social situations, or simply a world that doesn’t always “get it” can be exhausting. But I’ve learned that living with autism isn’t about trying to be like everyone else. It’s about embracing what makes me different and finding ways to make that work – for me, for my family, and for the people I connect with.

At the core of it, living with autism is a journey. It’s about learning, adapting, and finding the right tools to navigate the path ahead – whether that’s a perfectly tailored schedule, an AI assistant, or just knowing when to take a step back and recharge.

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